How to Sidestep Conflict and avoid feeling shame.

📣 When you walk away from a conflict, without reacting, it does one of 2 things. ✅ Leaves that person with no choice but to feel Ermm , stupid, embarrassed. 📣Think about it, someone's insulting you, belittling you... You look, say nothing, not respond or walk away..

🤔Think for a minute Imagine you are that person, somebody did this to you, 🤔🤔 😱 you see ? 😀 Powerful isn't it? ... ✅Did you feel silly ? ✅Exposed? ✅like you had lost your footing?? ❤️ Exactly !!!! 📣2nd Reason.

✅You create massive growth and self esteem, when you do. 🤔 Again, let's think, 🔔Our knee jerk reaction, or our ego may need us to

✅react ✅ defend, or ✅ even back down... 🔔How does that make you feel, long term?????? 👍You may have a little high, if you overpowered them, 👍Or you might in that moment feel safe, if you backed down, 🤔But later, then how are you feeling? When the moment has passed? 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫 📣Now, imagine if you again, simply did nothing, ✅Looked, said nothing walked away.. ✅Or simply stated, I think we are done here and left... Now how are you feeling? ✅Sad yes ✅Angry yes ✅Little vulnerable, maybe. But later, then how You feeling .. Go on, try it on..... 🏆Proud right ? 🏆Powerful right ? 🏆Dignified right ? 🏆And worthy ....absofrigginlutely.. 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 ❌So you see, those people who said, ❌ don't back down or you look weak. ❌Or stay quiet and you'll always be safe.. Well they appear to have been teaching us incorrectly, ❌❌ ✅✅As this method proves , I'm sure you,LL agree. ✌️💪❣️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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