For Couples

Are you and your partner;

  • Struggling to communicate effectively?

  • Find Cultural Differences or Backgrounds difficult to merge or understand.

  • Do Important talks tend to spiral into shouting matches or long bouts of silence?

  • Do you feel that in lots of ways you are great together, but also feel like you're not heard, or valued, that your partner fails to really understand you?

  • Do you have insecurities of mistrust within your relationship that you need help overcoming?

  • Do you struggle with getting back to how you used to be?

  • Has Infidelity's Occurred and Neither of you know, how to put it right or trust again ?

Whatever your problem, whilst not a miracle cure, Counselling can help you identify and work through most of the clashes that today's relationships can bring.

Mostly it comes from 2 people on different pages, whilst the wants are the same, ie both want more intimacy, less conflict, to be heard etc - a lot of couples simply do not know how to achieve this.

It's ok, you're not meant to, you can only be what your life experiences taught you so if your caregivers or past relationships have taught you certain ways, that is what you will adopt in your present.

Relationship Counselling will guide you in teaching you how to;

  • Communicate assertively and calmly in a style that will ensure both are heard and not in “defending self" mode.

  • Trace back old dynamics and behaviors that are not “Serving Your relationship" and open them up, release them and implement new more balanced ways of being.

  • Help you to Understand Each other on a deeper level, by exploring the differences and allowing compromise, a meeting in the mi

  • Look at Attachment Styles, Is one of you falling into a parental Role, whilst the other feels like a scolded child? We help you become Adult to Adult, and recognize and stop the patterns, that alter your dynamic.

  • Reset the commitments to each other by remembering all the reasons why you love each other, sometimes this can be deprioritized creating distance between your connection.

  • Insecurities or mistrust can be unpacked in session and explored as to where they come from and how we can move you through them together in a very clear step by step process.

  • Help you rebuild Trust and Form new ways forward.

Relationship Counselling is not a guarantee, but, it will help you find resolution, gain clarity, understanding and forgiveness and allow you to both move towards finding the right solutions for you

We Assign Mid Session Assignments and Tasks, Unique to Your needs. So as to enable, communication, bonding and Depth to happen, in life, not just In Session.

Our Sessions are Transformative, Direct and to The point .

Totally Impartial, You are the Client, The Couple,.

No Blame, No Shame, Just 2 People Taking Responsibility and coming Together to Create Healing, Acceptance and Change